Gentleman, Veteran, Politician: Bob Dole Remained True To Himself
[guest post by Dana]
It is a delight to watch Bob Dole riffing on his election loss on the Dave Letterman Show in 1996, just days after losing to Bill Clinton. A three-time presidential hopeful, Dole was a reminder that a politician’s love for country and fellow man needn’t be sacrificed to ruthless ambition and that being a gentleman in victory and defeat was, and still is, a noble thing:
Here’s Dole on Letterman three days after losing in 1996, gracious in defeat https://t.co/pIrnDR5Bvk
— Maggie Haberman (@maggieNYT) December 5, 2021
In an op-ed by Bob Dole’s national press secretary during his 1996 presidential campaign, Nelson Warfield gives an example of Dole embracing his independent spirit and compassion – even as it cost him political points:
Over and over again, in speech after speech, he told his campaign he was going to say what he wanted. We thought that was a problem. Looking back, I think it was a treasure.
See, Mr. Dole didn’t want to be packaged like a product or traffic in the staged outrage that today would be praised for generating attention, the currency of politics. It could be that his resistance to our demands to recite talking points or perform anger hurt his campaign. But if so, I now see that as an indictment of what politics was becoming in 1996 and what politics has become today.
It’s in unscripted moments that politicians reveal the most about themselves. While many politicians show themselves to be cynical, cruel or inauthentic in those off-script moments, Mr. Dole instead revealed a rare empathy.
For example, in 1996, Gov. Pete Wilson of California, a Republican, had won re-election two years prior with a tough law-and-order message, so we organized a trip to a jail in Los Angeles, with Mr. Wilson in tow, for a tour and a news conference.
It was a perfectly staged opportunity for Mr. Dole to say something bashing the miserable offenders he had just seen in the lockup. Instead, his first comment was to wonder aloud whether some of the men in those cells had ever been touched by the hand of someone who loved them.
Nobody had written that note of humanity for Mr. Dole. I’m not sure it was even picked up by the press. But it sprang from a compassion that he found hard to switch off for political purposes.
And this struck me as something precious and lost in today’s hurly-burly world: Bob Dole could frequently be found at the World War II Memorial greeting and speaking with visiting veterans. He worked hard to see the Memorial become a reality, and it has been suggested that there might not even be the World War II Memorial without his involvement.
You can read more about the life and times of Bob Dole here.
May he rest in peace.
–Dana
Good morning.
Dana (174549) — 12/6/2021 @ 8:06 amHe was a great American with a great sense of humor, and would’ve made a solid president.
Paul Montagu (5de684) — 12/6/2021 @ 8:09 amhttps://youtube.com/watch?v=Jt8uNG02ixA
“Easy boy”
BuDuh (4a7846) — 12/6/2021 @ 8:13 amWhat struck me most about Dole and his time in politics, was that there didn’t use to be this do-or-die demand for loyalty to one’s political party. Politicians were willing to work across the aisle, and I would say that they were compelled to do so by their constituents. Today, and certainly on both sides of the aisle, there is an expectation that politicians put political parties above all else and that not doing so almost guarantees a loss of support when election time rolls around.
Dana (174549) — 12/6/2021 @ 8:25 amDole defiance of this expectation could explain his endorsement and his voting twice for Outsider Trump.
BuDuh (4a7846) — 12/6/2021 @ 8:31 amGentleman, Veteran, Politician: Bob Dole Remained True To Himself
My sentiments exactly, Dana. May he rest in peace and his remembrance always be a monument of pride and honor to his family.
nk (1d9030) — 12/6/2021 @ 8:33 amBuDuh:
You make a fair point in your #5. But bear this in mind, too:
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2021/07/22/98-bob-dole-reckons-legacy-trump-ponders-future-gop/7995412002/
Appalled (1a17de) — 12/6/2021 @ 8:56 amEveryone I know agrees that Trump lost the election, Appalled. Good on Dole for having been sensible like the rest of us despite the desperate characterizations.
Also good on him accepting “Trumper” as a badge of honor, no matter how tiring it became. Part and parcel of an honorable man staying true to himself.
BuDuh (4a7846) — 12/6/2021 @ 9:09 am“I’m a Trumper,” Dole said at one point during the conversation. But he added at another, “I’m sort of Trumped out, though.”
mg (15c28b) — 12/6/2021 @ 9:17 amI can dig it.
Dole was a conservative in the truest sense: he disliked change. Even when it was needed, which is why I had such problems with him.
Kevin M (ab1c11) — 12/6/2021 @ 9:22 amThe best summary tribute to Dole that I’ve seen comes from George Will:
(I voted for Dole for president in 1996, but agree with Will that the legislative skills Dole had, made him a mediocre fit for the presidency. But character counts, or at least it once did, and so he was an easy choice over Clinton.)
Jim Miller (edcec1) — 12/6/2021 @ 9:27 amI think this is a great post by Dana, which uses two anecdotes to get to the heart of what a tremendous gentleman Bob Dole was. I toured the Bob Dole Museum in Lawrence, Kansas a few years ago and enjoyed it very much.
I am going to put up a post later today about the media reaction to Sen. Dole’s passing. Suffice to say, I have some issues with it.
JVW (ee64e4) — 12/6/2021 @ 9:53 amMy memory of Dole can’t comes from watching his eulogy at Nixon’s funeral. His display of genuine emotion really humanized him.
Rip Murdock (25d26f) — 12/6/2021 @ 10:49 am#8
The myth of the stolen election is part of the Trump brand, at least in 2021. Your friends may know that it’s false, but we’re still stuck with the assertions of theft, and the demand by Trump that these assertions be front and center of the GOP platform. David Perdue would not be running for governor whining that Kemp “failed us”, without that narrative.
Appalled (1a17de) — 12/6/2021 @ 10:52 amSource
Rip Murdock (25d26f) — 12/6/2021 @ 10:59 amI remember the excitement of Dole adding Kemp to his ticket in ’96….but alas, a pretty good economy and no big foreign policy challenges and Kemp not energizing the campaign like many of us had hoped…made it tough to unseat a relatively smooth (shall we say slick?) incumbent. The fact is too….the consummate legislator-insider has always been an awkward fit for Chief Executive (Obama was hardly a long-timer and had much more novelty about him). But Dole got my vote without hesitation….though I was far more conservative in my beliefs at the time than the pragmatic Dole. Like McCain 12 years later, Dole offered a gruff…been there, done that….personna that suggests low-drama competence and a gentleman-esque approach to the campaign that some of us miss. I can’t imagine Dole copying any of Trump’s antics or wanting to defend them as Majority Leader. I think I’ll choose to believe that Dole simply got caught up with Trump-mania like many on the Right. Hey, everyone loves the chaos of the circus…I’ll give a 90-something-year-old-veteran the benefit of the doubt…..if anyone earned it, it was Bob Dole…..
AJ_Liberty (ec7f74) — 12/6/2021 @ 11:18 amAs noted on another thread, always found Dole’s constant use of the third person when referring to himself to be strange. You can almost hear him muttering to the nurse when born; when asking for his divorce; exiting a taxi cab or bargaining with the Almighty on his departure to the hear-after, declaring: “Bob Dole wants out!”
The late Norm MacDonald’s impression of ‘Dole’ on SNL was hilarious- and spot on, too:
https://www.nbc.com/saturday-night-live/video/norm-macdonald-cold-opening/n10910
https://uproxx.com/tv/bob-dole-norm-macdonald-snl-impersonation/
Even Dole appreciated it:
‘WICHITA, Kan. (KWCH) – Former U.S. Senator Bob Dole is remembering the late Norm Macdonald for his comedic talents. Macdonald portrayed the senator from Kansas on Saturday Night Live. The two met about a week after Dole lost the 1996 election. “Norm @normmacdonald was a great talent, and I loved laughing with him on SNL,” tweeted Dole.’
As a person, Dole was quite a witty and funny fellow– traits he mostly hid as a campaigning politician. The nickname ‘Hatchet Man’ stuck, and his cranky line, “Stop lying about my record” still echoes. Spoke w/Dole briefly years ago via CSPAN a few days after he delivered Nixon’s eulogy as well– [which The Big Dick asked him to do.] A sympathetic tribute to be sure [worth a read/watch for you youngsters]– but delivered by one of Nixon’s biggest apologists. I admired the man for his service– but the politician, much less so. Still, his capacity to compromise is sorely needed today.
DCSCA (f4c5e5) — 12/6/2021 @ 12:14 pmHeh: “desperate characterizations”.
Dana (8e6522) — 12/6/2021 @ 12:26 pmhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nzMahrucH04
“Hey, hey! What about that- Bob Dole, Chinaman! Hard work and good in math!?!?” – MacDonald as Dole
DCSCA (f4c5e5) — 12/6/2021 @ 12:31 pmMy memory of Dole can’t comes from watching his eulogy at Nixon’s funeral.
You may recall that Sen. Dole punctuated his narration of President’s Nixon’s life with the continual comment of “How American!” Here is a taste:
In a very touching statement on Sen. Dole’s passing yesterday, Tricia Nixon Cox and Julie Nixon Eisenhower returned the salute:
Grace meets grace.
JVW (ee64e4) — 12/6/2021 @ 2:10 pm@20.
A POLITICAL LIFE — The Nixon Years; For Dole, Nixon Was a Mirror and a Mentor
“While Mr. Dole certainly rose to prominence during the Nixon years, that rise carried a high price. It was in his self-appointed role as President Nixon’s defender on the Senate floor that Mr. Dole first earned his damaging — and enduring — reputation as a hatchet man. (So antagonistic was Mr. Dole, former Senator William B. Saxbe memorably observed, that “he couldn’t sell beer on a troopship.”)
During these years, Mr. Dole was subject to private insults as well.
For all his championing of the President’s most unpopular policies, he remained outside Mr. Nixon’s inner circle, often humiliatingly so. He was frequently ignored and occasionally even mocked by the President’s closest advisers. And though Mr. Dole pleaded to stay, Mr. Nixon unceremoniously dumped him as party chairman after the 1972 election… he is reluctant to talk about the scandal as it relates to Mr. Nixon himself. In an interview aboard his campaign plane, Mr. Dole shied away from criticisms of the former President’s behavior, either as it affected the country or him. Instead he made a point of noting that his hurtful treatment by the Nixon White House was strictly the work of the President’s henchmen. “Maybe I excuse Nixon,” he said.”
https://www.nytimes.com/1996/06/21/us/a-political-life-the-nixon-years-for-dole-nixon-was-a-mirror-and-a-mentor.html
DCSCA (f4c5e5) — 12/6/2021 @ 3:53 pmThe way Dole began has speech on accepting the Presidential Medal of Freedom from Bill Clinton is funny. It starts at 5:30 here.
It’s amusing to see who first injected Trump into the discussion, as though it sums up Dole’s personal merit. There’s an interesting video clip from the 2017 inauguration where Obama greets the Doles warmly and exchanges friendly words with them, after Trump’s very cursory half-handshake.
There’s still much to be said for being a decent human being, even in politics.
Radegunda (142a4d) — 12/6/2021 @ 5:39 pmNot surprisingly you read that wrong. Still upset?
BuDuh (3f85c8) — 12/6/2021 @ 5:49 pmOh! But!! Tee hee!! Obama was supposedly nicer to Dole one day! Hahaha! Stupid Trumpalumpadingdongs.
BuDuh (4a7846) — 12/6/2021 @ 6:02 pmthe world exists only in relation to mr. trump the donald, ms. radegunda
and in no other way
he is the baby at every christening, the bride at every wedding, the corpse at every funeral, the catsup on every meatloaf
nk (1d9030) — 12/6/2021 @ 6:06 pmthe catsup on every meatloaf
In the case of DJT, disgustingly enough, the catsup on every well-done New York strip steak.
JVW (ee64e4) — 12/6/2021 @ 9:07 pm… the catsup on every meatloaf
Nixon’s favorite treat: catsup and cottage cheese.
… and Donald smiled.
DCSCA (f4c5e5) — 12/6/2021 @ 9:16 pmNixon’s favorite treat: catsup and cottage cheese.
Nixon grew up poor and lived through the Depression. What’s Trump’s excuse? The family chef as he was growing up didn’t know how to season or cook the steak properly?
JVW (ee64e4) — 12/6/2021 @ 9:25 pm@28. Rich, poor… I’m from Pittsburgh: it is genetics and law: we must put Heinz ketchup on everything. Even make ketchup sandwiches.
DCSCA (f4c5e5) — 12/6/2021 @ 9:34 pmI’ll always put ketchup on my meatloaf, but dayam.
Paul Montagu (5de684) — 12/6/2021 @ 9:54 pmThe family chef as he was growing up didn’t know how to season or cook the steak properly?
I imagine he puts catsup on everything. He likes catsup.
Kevin M (ab1c11) — 12/6/2021 @ 11:18 pmOT: Elon Musk opposes subsidies for electric cars and charging stations.
It really is amazing just how corrupt Biden is, and how much money he intends to shovel to the unions. Steel tariffs are more honest.
Kevin M (ab1c11) — 12/6/2021 @ 11:22 pmLink: https://www.wsj.com/articles/elon-musk-comes-out-against-federal-electric-vehicle-spending-11638847587?mod=hp_lead_pos5
Kevin M (ab1c11) — 12/6/2021 @ 11:23 pmI’ll always put ketchup on my meatloaf, but dayam.
I don’t own any catsup.
Kevin M (ab1c11) — 12/6/2021 @ 11:24 pmAt least the Trumpeter can still chew his food.
mg (15c28b) — 12/7/2021 @ 1:34 amSome interesting thoughts at the Dispatch about Dole from Scott Reed his ’96 campaign manager
AJ_Liberty (3cb02f) — 12/7/2021 @ 4:50 amIt’s not meatloaf without catsup. In the mixture and in the glaze. It may be chopped steak, it may be hamburger, it may be sausage, it may be a giant meatball, but it’s the catsup that makes it meatloaf.
nk (1d9030) — 12/7/2021 @ 5:06 amThe Nixon favorite meal was good prep for occasional… inconveniences. (Upside down Red Dog beer label emoji)
urbanleftbehind (ae9d91) — 12/7/2021 @ 7:27 amNot a slam on Dole, but Maggie Haberman thinks losing graciously is the GOP zenith
steveg (e81d76) — 12/7/2021 @ 7:45 amnk @37.
That’s part of the definition of meatloaf?
Otherwise it is just chopped meat. Different from meatballs in that it is shaped into a rectangular shape?
Sammy Finkelman (c49738) — 12/7/2021 @ 8:40 amI had heard that Bob Dole said he had Stage 4 lung cancer in February, but, on hearing no more, put it put of my mind. It is too bad he wasn’t president, although others here disagree.
Sammy Finkelman (c49738) — 12/7/2021 @ 8:43 amI think so, Sammy. Some people claim to eschew catsup, but then you find that they put in tomato sauce, molasses, vinegar, etc. which what it is is their own catsup recipe.
nk (1d9030) — 12/7/2021 @ 8:56 am